Four free quizzes, open to everyone. One builds your own list of the places and groups near you where the kind of person you want actually spends time. One is a serious, private read on your readiness and mindset that comes back with a personalized development roadmap. The other two are 60-second, playful takes on what’s quietly holding your love life back. All of them end with something you can actually act on.
Tell us who you’re looking for, where you live and what you’re into. Get a curated list of the real clubs, venues and online groups in your area where that person already spends time.
Build my list → Quiz · Readiness & mindsetAn honest, private self-assessment of where you are, what’s already working for you, and the inner work that matters most. Get a straight read plus a personalized development roadmap, and we’ll email you a PDF to keep.
Take the assessment → Quiz · For men & womenA playful quiz for men and women that compares your dating life to a home on the market, then shows which of the 12 listings you are, and what would finally get it “sold.”
Take the quiz → Quiz · For men & womenThe apps are built for the common folk, but some of us are a rarer species. A 60-second quiz that reveals which of the 12 creatures your love life is, and exactly what a matchmaker would do about it.
Take the quiz →A result is only useful if it points somewhere. Here’s where each one leads.
Your mindset assessment and development roadmap explained, plus one-on-one sessions curated by Dr. Lindsay O’Shea for when you want a partner in the work.
Explore coaching & growth → FreeAn open bank of honest reads on attraction, readiness, and lasting love, plus free downloads like 63 first-date questions and 100 creative date ideas.
Open the library → Free toolWalk in calm and out clear: prep, conversation starters, what to notice, and a quick debrief for every first date.
Get date-ready →Start with a free, no-pressure intake. We'll point you to the right resources, line up the coaching or profile makeover that fits, and put a matchmaker in your corner.
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