Simple, transparent pricing

Flat monthly plans based on hours worked for you.

A set block of dedicated hours every week, plus a standing check-in and training.

One simple rate: $15 an hour of dedicated work, with no five-figure retainers and nothing hidden. Each plan buys a set number of hours your matchmaker spends searching, reviewing, and reaching out for you, backed by our sourcing tools. Adjust or pause anytime.

A real person on your side, backed by real tools.

A dedicated matchmaker spends a set block of hours each week searching, reviewing, and reaching out on your behalf, backed by our sourcing tools. You see the work that goes in and pay only for the plan you choose.

Essential

20 hrs / month

$15 / hr

$75/wk · 5 hrs a week

A steady, focused search. A great fit when your strongest channels have natural weekly limits (for example, LinkedIn caps how many new connections you can send per week).

Weekly strategy meeting
Access to dating training resources
Free dating app makeover to maximize your profiles

Estimated engagement*

8–12 new prospects sourced / week
2–3 vetted candidates / week
1–2 curated intros / month

Plus a one-time $500 success fee if you enter a relationship with someone we introduce and you're still together at 3 months. It's the only charge we have that exists because the search worked.

Focused

40 hrs / month

$15 / hr

$150/wk · 10 hrs a week

More weekly hours and more channels worked in parallel, so momentum builds faster without burning out any single outreach channel.

Weekly strategy meeting
Training resources and date-prep coaching
Multiple channels worked in parallel
Free dating app makeover to maximize your profiles

Estimated engagement*

15–25 new prospects sourced / week
3–5 vetted candidates / week
2–4 curated intros / month

Plus a one-time $500 success fee if you enter a relationship with someone we introduce and you're still together at 3 months. It's the only charge we have that exists because the search worked.

Priority

60 hrs / month

$15 / hr

$225/wk · 15 hrs a week

Our most active search for those who want to move quickly across every viable channel at once. Best when speed matters most.

Weekly strategy meeting
Training resources and date-prep coaching
Priority sourcing across every channel
Free dating app makeover to maximize your profiles

Estimated engagement*

25–40 new prospects sourced / week
5–8 vetted candidates / week
3–5 curated intros / month

Plus a one-time $500 success fee if you enter a relationship with someone we introduce and you're still together at 3 months. It's the only charge we have that exists because the search worked.

*Estimated ranges based on typical activity at each level, shown to set expectations only. Your matchmaker's hours are shared across both proactive matchmaking – sourcing, vetting, and making introductions – and managing and running your dating-app profiles on your behalf, so how these numbers break down depends on where your time is best spent each week. Actual prospects, vetted candidates, and introductions also vary with your criteria, location, and the dating market, and are not guaranteed. 4Keeps commits to the hours of work, not to a specific outcome.

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Why it's worth it

You invest in everything but the one thing that matters most.

Career, home, health, you pour years and real money into them, then leave your person to chance and a spare 20 minutes of swiping.

You invest in

Career

Degrees, coaches, decades.

You invest in

Home & health

Mortgages, trainers, real money.

→

But leave to chance

Your person

The thing most tied to a happy life.

If you have the means, your person is the highest-return investment you can make.

Not because love has a price, but because everything else you’re building is better shared. A matchmaker just puts real resources behind the goal you’d call most important.

The economics

Swiping isn’t free. It bills you in hours.

Even ignoring the emotional toll, running your own search quietly costs you about a full workday, every week.

~8 hrs/wk

browsing, messaging, screening, and scheduling, mostly on people you’ll never meet.Illustrative, from self-reported app-usage studies

~400 hrs/yr

a full workweek every month, gone. We hand that time back to you.

78%

of app users report burnout, so those hours aren’t just lost, they’re draining.Forbes Health / OnePoll, 2024

What a week of dating really costs

Your own hours vs. our most popular plan

Your time · ~8 hrs @ $50/hr$400/wk

4Keeps Focused plan$150/wk

You buy back a full workday of your time for less than half what that time is worth, and the work gets done better.

The math

At just $50/hour, ~8 hours a week is $400 of your time on dating, every week. Our most popular plan is $150/week, and it does the work better than you could.

The multiplier

Our matchmakers work with efficiency-gaining tools and proven best practices, so every paid hour covers far more ground than an hour of you swiping, pushing the real value per hour higher still.

The edge

Just like in recruiting, people are far more receptive to a warm approach from a professional matchmaker than to cold outreach from a stranger, so our outreach connects where yours would be ignored.

The point

You’re not paying to add a chore. You’re paying to delete one, and to swap scattered swiping for focused, professional searching.

The cost of bad dates

Trade ten dead-end dates for two great ones.

Every first date that goes nowhere is an evening, an outfit, drinks or dinner, and a reset afterward. Fewer, better dates win on time, money, and how you feel.

Signal vs. noise

Each dot is a first date · filled dots actually go somewhere

On your own10 dates, maybe 2 worth it

With a matchmakerfewer dates, mostly worth it

Same two great dates, without the eight dead ends, and everything they cost you.

Doing it yourself

Lots of dates,
little signal

Hours of swiping before a single date
Evenings and money on people who were never a fit
Profiles that lie, so you find out at the table
Burnout that makes you show up as less than your best

With a matchmaker

Fewer dates,
far better ones

You only meet people already vetted as a fit
Fewer wasted evenings, fewer wasted dollars
Candidates interviewed first, so who you meet is real
You arrive fresh and hopeful, not drained

Better odds

A curated intro beats a cold match.

A warm, mutual, hand-picked introduction turns into a second date, and a relationship, far more often than a swipe ever will.

Warm intro

both people already know it’s a considered match, so dates start with intent, not suspicion.

Pre-vetted

values and dealbreakers are checked before you meet, so more of your dates could actually work.

Right volume

not a firehose, not a drought, a steady stream of genuinely compatible people.

How often a first meeting goes somewhere

A warm, vetted introduction converts far more often than a cold match

Cold app matchLow

Curated 4Keeps introMuch higher

Relative, illustrative. The point: more of your first meetings turn into something real.

More than introductions

The search is just the start of what’s included.

Work you’d otherwise pay separate coaches and consultants for, bundled in.

Coaching & mindset

A readiness roadmap and coaching so you show up ready for the right relationship.

Honest feedback

Real, private feedback from your dates, so you learn what’s working instead of guessing.

Profile makeovers

Optional makeovers of your existing profiles, plus photo and prompt guidance.

New apps, set up for you

We’ll set up and run the right additional apps on your behalf when it helps.

People you can’t reach

Proactive outreach and a private network introduce you to people you’d never cross paths with.

The whole thing, handled

Scheduling, screening, and follow-up, the second job, taken off your plate.

Time figures are illustrative estimates from self-reported studies, shown to frame the trade-offs. 4Keeps commits to the hours of dedicated work, not a specific outcome.

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