Confidential Matchmaking Intake

Tell us about you

It only takes a few minutes. Your answers are saved automatically as you go, you can stop after the first part and finish later. Your name and contact details are never shown to potential matches. Fields marked * are required.

Please note: every member, Client and Network alike, goes through a vetting interview as part of joining 4Keeps. Completing this form is the first step.

Not ready for the full form? Answer a few quick questions and request a call instead →

👋Welcome back!We saved your progress on this device, so you can pick up right where you left off.

Started this before but don't see your saved progress?

Can't pick up where you left off?

If you began an intake earlier and it isn't showing here, your saved draft is likely on a different device or browser (progress is stored on the device you used). Send us a quick note and we'll pull up where you left off or finish it with you, or you can just start a fresh intake.

Step 1 of 2 · The essentials
The essentials
Contact details and the basics. This is all we need to get started; you can add the rest later.
Tick every group you'd like to be introduced to. “Everyone / no preference” is its own answer, not a fallback.
Only your matchmaker sees this. It's never shown to a match, and you can leave it blank.

Your progress is saved on this device automatically and when you choose "Save & finish later," so you can return to this page anytime to pick up where you left off. The essentials you submit in step one are recorded as soon as you continue.

How we update your profiles remotely

It's hands-off for you. You approve everything before it goes live, and nothing changes without your say-so.

Realistic, generated or edited photos of you

We use AI and professional image-editing software to generate realistic, true-to-life images of you: the best, most attractive version of the real you. Don't worry: they're built to look completely real and natural, never the obvious, over-smoothed “AI” look. We start from your own photos and refine the lighting, styling, and setting so you look like you on your very best day.

Words that communicate your vibe

We write your prompts, bio, and messaging to come across as authentically you, capturing your real personality and vibe while positioning you to maximize your appeal and stand out to the right matches.

Each additional profile is its own makeover

Working on more than one app? Every additional profile gets its own fresh set of pics and prompts. That keeps each one looking its best, and keeps you from being recognized as the same person across platforms, which you don't want when you're searching.

How you'll get us what we need

No logins, no tech setup. After you check out, we'll email you and you just reply with screenshots of your current profile(s), any other photos you have of yourself, and anything you do or don't want to convey. We build everything from there and hand back a ready-to-paste profile for each app, plus a bonus of 5 proven openers. You approve everything before it goes live.

Your call, always. We never message anyone or post anything without your approval.

What's your attachment style?

Five questions, about a minute. Answer with what's usually true for you, not what you'd like to be true. There are no wrong answers, and nobody sees your answers — only the style it works out to, which you can change afterwards.