• ✦It takes about 10 to 12 minutes. There are no wrong answers, and the more candid you are, the more useful it is.
• ✦We look at the whole picture: your values, your inner life and growth, how you relate to yourself, and how all of that shows up in dating.
• ✦You'll get a straight read on your readiness, plus a personalized roadmap with concrete things you can do to grow and improve your odds.
• ✦With your permission, your matchmaker sees the same roadmap so they can coach you and keep you accountable.
• ✦This is private. It is never shown to potential matches.

Your action items

Grouped by focus area, in rough priority order. Each area explains itself under Why this matters. You don't have to do all of it at once.

Any action item with a calendar button is time based, so you can drop it straight into your own calendar. Nothing is scheduled unless you choose to add it, and you set the time.

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