• ✦It takes about 15 to 20 minutes, and most of it is one tap. There are no wrong answers, and the more candid you are, the more useful it is.
• ✦We look at the whole picture: your values, your inner life and growth, how you relate to yourself, and how all of that shows up in dating.
• ✦You'll also get an honest read on how you come across to people, and the kind of partner you're most likely to thrive with.
• ✦You'll get a straight read on your readiness, plus a personalized roadmap with concrete things you can do to grow and improve your odds.
• ✦With your permission, your matchmaker sees the same roadmap so they can coach you and keep you accountable.
• ✦This is private. It is never shown to potential matches.

Your action items

Grouped by focus area, in rough priority order. Each area explains itself under Why this matters. You don't have to do all of it at once.

Any action item with a calendar button is time based, so you can drop it straight into your own calendar. Nothing is scheduled unless you choose to add it, and you set the time.

Actual progress takes actual initiative.So please take a minute to put these in your calendar, or write them down on notes where you'll see them regularly throughout the day.

Keep your plan

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Pop in your name and email and we'll send your full development plan, with a copy of your answers, as a PDF, so you can come back to it whenever you like.