A new kind of matchmaking

A personal assistant for your love life.

A real human that sources, schedules, and guides you towards a real relationship, not endless matches.

The problem

Modern dating sucks.

Either way, you're optimizing for someone else's system.

Dating apps

Built to keep you swiping

Exhausted from dating apps
  • Gamified for screen time, not relationships
  • You're the recruiter, screener, and scheduler
  • Endless choice, decision fatigue, burnout
Traditional matchmakers

Built around their roster

Bad matchmaker date
  • You're matched from whoever they already have
  • Paid to maximize dates, not to find your match
  • Their definition of a "good match," not yours
A matchmaker on your side

Finding love shouldn't be a full‑time job. We work for you.

Hired by you, working only for you. They learn what you actually want, then go find it. You review real, vetted people; they handle the rest.

Works for you, not a system

These people work exclusively for your best interest, not for optimizing within their existing pool.

You stay in control

You approve everyone you meet. No surprises, no pressure.

All of it, handled
  • Sources and reaches out
  • Messages and screens
  • Vets every candidate
  • Schedules your dates
  • Gathers honest feedback
  • Your sounding board
  • Guides your growth
Let us do the dating
How we find great matches

Three ways your matchmaking assistant sources.

A matchmaker actively searching a client's dating apps
Primary source

App Search

We run your dating apps for you: swiping, messaging, and screening matches, so you never have to open them.

A matchmaker introducing a great match found out in the world
Primary source

Matchmaker Search

We find compatible people out in the world and introduce you as professional matchmakers, reaching people you'd never have met.

You choose the mix

Your hours, split the way you want them.

Both are done by the same person: yours. You decide how much of their week goes to running your apps versus hunting for people out in the world, and you can change it any time.

70% App Search 7 hrs a week
30% Matchmaker Search 3 hrs a week

Where most clients start: the apps do the volume while your matchmaker hunts for the people the apps will never show you.

Hours shown for a 10 hour a week plan. Your matchmaker recommends a starting mix after your intake.

4Keeps private network pool of interested singles
Secondary source

Private Network

We also draw on our network of singles already hoping to meet someone like you.

Why 4Keeps

One of a kind, by design.

Everything a matchmaker on your side should be, plus the feedback, coaching, and tooling most services never offer.

Entirely on your side

Hired by you, accountable to you. Your matchmaker's only goal is your happiness.

Beyond any roster

We source from the whole world of singles, not just who already signed up with an agency, including people you'd never cross paths with on your own.

Feedback on every match

For introductions we make through our matchmaking channels, we gather honest feedback from both sides and tell you straight, so each date sharpens the next.

Optimized profiles

We get you onto the right apps and give your profiles a professional makeover, photos, prompts, and positioning, so every match sees your best self.

A personal growth roadmap

A clear-eyed read on your patterns plus a personally curated development roadmap, complimentary in your portal, so you show up as your best self.

Weekly calls & real guidance

Ongoing support and honest advice in regular calls with your matchmaker, with professional coaching available separately when you want to go deeper.

Technology in your corner

The same tooling we use to guide your search, from compatibility scoring to AI-assisted suggestions for what to say, is yours to use in your own app conversations too.

Private & curated

No public profile, no inbox to manage. Your details stay confidential until you say otherwise.

Personally reviewed

Your matchmaker personally reviews every candidate for compatibility before any introduction, and members agree to our community standards.

Your time back

We do the searching, the vetting, the reaching out, and even the scheduling, so finding someone fits into your life instead of taking it over.

Dates that mean more

Both people chose something intentional over endless swiping, so introductions carry real intent: better first dates, far less flaking, a higher hit rate.

No rejection sting

Your matchmaker handles the asking, the screening, and the gentle no's, so you're shielded from the awkward parts of rejecting or being rejected.

Sound like you?

Are you…

A busy professional with no time to run your own search?

Emotionally drained by app after app, date after date?

Tired of being your own recruiter, screener, and scheduler?

Ready for something real, not another queue of matches?

You're not too picky. You've just never had someone doing the looking for you.

Ages21 to 65
WhereWe source anywhere in the US
Two ways to join

Get found by your person, or have us find them for you.

A 4Keeps network member connected to potential matches
Free to join

Network Member

No cost · no commitment

Join at no cost and we'll keep you in mind for our clients.

  • Introduced when you're a great fit
  • No dedicated matchmaker searching for you
Join the network free
A dedicated matchmaker working on the clock for a client
Dedicated matchmaker

Client

The personal-assistant model

A matchmaker who works only for you, searching, vetting, and reaching out to find your person anywhere.

  • Active sourcing, vetting, and outreach
  • You approve everyone you meet
  • Free dating app makeover to maximize your profiles

Flat weekly plans from $15/hr, no five-figure retainer. See pricing →

Start your free intake

Do you really want to spend another year alone?

Start with a free, no-pressure intake. See what dating feels like when someone's finally in your corner.

Start your free intake