A partner in the work, when you want one.
Coaching is a separate, paid service, open to clients and non-clients alike. Here's what one-on-one sessions cover.
Work your development plan together
Every paid client already gets a complimentary mindset assessment and development plan. Your coach is the partner who works through it with you, turning the plan into real, lasting change.
Date prep and debriefs
Talk through who you are about to meet, what to pay attention to, and what each date actually told you, so every introduction moves you forward.
Break the patterns that keep repeating
Spot the habits that quietly undermine good matches, from over-texting to chasing the wrong type, and trade them for ones that work.
Confidence and communication
Build the grounded, unforced confidence that makes dating feel less like a performance and more like meeting your person.
How coaching differs from matchmaking
Coaching is a separate service, not part of your matchmaking plan. Your matchmaker runs your search; a coach helps you grow.
Your matchmaker
The person working for you on the logistics of your search, sourcing, vetting, and arranging your matches. You give them your feedback after each introduction, by portal, email, text, or a quick call, and they fine-tune from there.
Your coach
A qualified expert who goes beyond the logistics, helping you understand your patterns, work your development plan, and show up as your best self. The growth side of the work, not the operations.
Our coaching and training program is professionally curated by Dr. Lindsay O'Shea, who designs the sessions, frameworks, and exercises our clients work through.
@dr_lindsayosheaOne-on-one sessions, when you want them.
Every matchmaking plan includes training resources and date-prep coaching from your matchmaker, and every paid client gets a complimentary mindset assessment and development plan. One-on-one sessions with a coach are a paid add-on on any plan: $85 for your first, $285 after. Every session draws on the program curated by Dr. Lindsay O'Shea.
Request a coaching sessionNo membership required. Tell us what you'd like to work on and we'll be in touch.