Finding the right person is half the work; showing up as your best self is the other half. One-on-one coaching, professionally curated by Dr. Lindsay O'Shea, gives you a qualified partner who works your development roadmap with you, prepares you for every date, and helps you build the grounded confidence that makes lasting love possible.
Every paid client already gets a complimentary mindset assessment and development roadmap. Your coach is the partner who works through it with you, turning the plan into real, lasting change.
Talk through who you are about to meet, what to pay attention to, and what each date actually told you, so every introduction moves you forward.
Spot the habits that quietly undermine good matches, from over-texting to chasing the wrong type, and trade them for ones that work.
Build the grounded, unforced confidence that makes dating feel less like a performance and more like meeting your person.
They're two different roles, and you get both. One runs your search; the other helps you grow.
The person working for you on the logistics of your search, sourcing, vetting, and arranging your matches. You give them your feedback after each introduction, by portal, email, text, or a quick call, and they fine-tune from there.
A qualified expert who goes beyond the logistics, helping you understand your patterns, work your development roadmap, and show up as your best self. The growth side of the work, not the operations.
Our coaching and training program is professionally curated by Dr. Lindsay O'Shea, who designs the sessions, frameworks, and exercises our clients work through.
@dr_lindsayosheaCoaching is included in the Focused and Priority matchmaking plans and available as an add-on with Essential. Every session draws on the program curated by Dr. Lindsay O'Shea.
Coaching is just the start. Here's the rest of your 4Keeps guidance toolkit.
Every paid client gets a complimentary mindset assessment and a personalized development roadmap, waiting in your portal.
See what's included → Paid serviceStill swiping on your own? We rework your photos, prompts, and bio across every app so your profile works as hard as you do.
Explore the makeover → FreeAn open bank of honest reads on attraction, readiness, and lasting love, plus 100 creative date ideas sorted by interest.
Open the library → Free toolWalk in calm and out clear: prep, conversation starters, what to notice, and a quick debrief for every first date.
Get date-ready →Start with a free, no-pressure intake. We'll point you to the right resources, line up the coaching or profile makeover that fits, and put a matchmaker in your corner.
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