Complimentary for every client

A mindset assessment and a development roadmap, built just for you.

Finding the right person is half the work; showing up as your best self is the other half. Every paid 4Keeps client gets two tools to make that second half intentional, a clear-eyed read on where you are today and a step-by-step roadmap for where you're headed, ready and waiting in your client portal at no extra cost.

Your mindset assessment

An honest read on where you are today, your patterns, your blind spots, and what's quietly getting in the way, so the work starts from a clear picture instead of a guess. Drawn from your intake and what your matchmaker learns as your search unfolds.

Your personalized development roadmap

From that assessment we build a roadmap tailored to you, the specific shifts and skills that will make the biggest difference, so your growth is intentional rather than accidental. It evolves as you do, right alongside your matches.

In your portal

How your roadmap comes together

1 · We listen

Your intake and your matchmaker's notes tell us who you are and what you're really looking for.

2 · We map it

That becomes your assessment and a roadmap of the shifts that will move you forward fastest.

3 · It's yours

Both live in your client portal the moment you join, ready whenever you are.

Dr. Lindsay O'Shea, 4Keeps dating and relationship coach
Want to go deeper? Work it with a coach.

Your assessment and roadmap are yours to use on your own. When you want a partner in the work, one-on-one coaching, professionally curated by Dr. Lindsay O'Shea, helps you turn the roadmap into real change, date by date.

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No add-on, no upsell

Included free with every membership.

Your mindset assessment and development roadmap are complimentary for every paid 4Keeps client, on Essential, Focused, and Priority alike. Become a client and they're waiting for you in the portal, no separate purchase required.

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More ways we guide you

Your assessment and roadmap are just the start. Here's the rest of your 4Keeps guidance toolkit.

Ready to give your search every advantage?

Start with a free, no-pressure intake. We'll point you to the right resources, line up the coaching or profile makeover that fits, and put a matchmaker in your corner.

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