4Keeps
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Your own matchmaker,
actively searching for you.

4Keeps is matchmaking built like a personal assistant for your dating life. Tell us who you're looking for, and a dedicated matchmaker spends real, tracked hours every week searching, vetting, and reaching out on your behalf, or join our network free and we'll keep you in mind for our clients. Two minutes to join, and you choose which one below.

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What the service actually entails

No five-figure retainer and no black box. You hire a set number of hours a week, and you see where they went.

1

You tell us your type

A short intake now, then a proper conversation with your matchmaker about what you actually want, not just the checkbox version.

2

We go find them

Your matchmaker actively searches for people who fit what you want, across our private network, referrals, events, LinkedIn, and the dating apps. They reach out on your behalf and meet with you each week to refine the search.

3

We vet before you meet

Every candidate is screened and spoken to first, so the people who reach you are real, single, and genuinely interested.

4

You just show up

We handle the intro and the logistics and prep you before you meet. Afterward, we ask your date what they really thought and tell you straight: the honest feedback you'd never get on your own, so each next date lands closer.

Mindset roadmap & coachingEvery client gets a complimentary mindfulness exam and a personal development roadmap in your portal, an honest read on your patterns plus calendar-ready action items. Deeper one-on-one coaching is available too.
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Choose your membership *
Three ways to join 4Keeps. Pick one to submit. You can change your mind later.
We'll add you to our network for free and a team member will reach out soon for a short, no-pressure call to help you find the right fit. As a Network member, you'll still go through a vetting interview following that call before we consider you for introductions. Nothing is charged and there's no commitment. If you decide you'd like a dedicated matchmaker, we'll help you upgrade then.
Pick a plan · billed every 2 weeks
Some channels have natural weekly limits (LinkedIn caps new connection requests per week, for example), so more hours generally means more channels worked in parallel and faster momentum. Not sure how many hours you need? Estimate my plan →
Optional add-ons
Give yourself a head start. Nothing is charged now. Tick either one and we'll confirm the details and set it up during onboarding.
✨ As a Client your dating app makeover is included free, and we'll pick the apps with you on the next step.

Want to give us the full picture up front instead? Take the complete intake →

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