4Keeps
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A real person,
actually looking for you.

4Keeps is matchmaking built like a personal assistant for your dating life. Tell us who you're looking for, and a dedicated matchmaker spends real, tracked hours every week searching, vetting, and reaching out on your behalf — or join our network free and we'll keep you in mind for our clients. Two minutes to join, and you choose which one below.

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What the service actually entails

No five-figure retainer and no black box. You hire a set number of hours a week, and you see where they went.

1

You tell us your type

A short intake now, then a proper conversation with your matchmaker about what you actually want — not just the checkbox version.

2

We go find them

Your matchmaker works your search across every channel: our network, referrals, events, LinkedIn, and the apps — sourcing and reaching out as you, with a weekly strategy meeting to steer it.

3

We vet before you meet

Every candidate is screened and spoken to first, so the people who reach you are real, single, and genuinely interested.

4

You just show up

We handle the intro and the logistics, prep you for the date, and debrief after so the next one lands closer.

Hours you can seeYour matchmaker logs the time they spend on your search. You get a running total in your client portal — you're paying for work, not a promise.
Honest feedback after every dateWe ask your date what they really thought and tell you straight — the feedback you'd never get on your own.
Mindset roadmap & coachingEvery client gets a complimentary mindfulness exam and a personal development roadmap in your portal — an honest read on your patterns plus calendar-ready action items. Deeper one-on-one coaching is available too.
Your dating apps, run for youClients get a free profile makeover, and your matchmaker can manage the apps on your behalf so your best channel isn't sitting idle.
Pause or adjust anytimeFlat plans billed every two weeks. Change your level or pause the search whenever life does — no retainer to burn through.
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Choose your membership *
Three ways to join 4Keeps — pick one to submit. You can change your mind later.
We'll add you to our network for free and a team member will reach out soon for a short, no-pressure call to help you find the right fit. As a Network member, you'll still go through a vetting interview following that call before we consider you for introductions. Nothing is charged and there's no commitment — if you decide you'd like a dedicated matchmaker, we'll help you upgrade then.
Pick a plan · billed every 2 weeks
Some channels have natural weekly limits (LinkedIn caps new connection requests per week, for example), so more hours generally means more channels worked in parallel and faster momentum. Compare plans →
Optional add-ons
Give yourself a head start. Nothing is charged now — tick either one and we'll confirm the details and set it up during onboarding.
✨ As a Client your dating app makeover is included free — we'll pick the apps with you on the next step.

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